Once again I was in New York City yesterday. It was a long
day and lots of subway rides.
I try to be inconspicuous when I observe the riders on the
subway. Just about everyone avoids eye contact with anyone standing next to you
or seated across from you.
Once when I did make eye contact, the guys across from me
said in an angry tone, “What are you looking at?” I said, “nothing” and let it
go at that. That was the last time I made eye contact. Now I seemingly stare
off in the distance, but I’m really taking in the scene.
Years ago, men, AKA gentlemen, got up from their seats and
offered them to women who boarded the train at a later stop. Not any more!
Today riders read, eat, sleep, chat, if they are with a
companion, text on their smart phones, or like me stare innocuously into the
non-existence distance, but probably take in the scene.
Yesterday I asked an MTA motor-woman if such and such was
the right stop for where I wanted to go. She said yes, but then a little later
came out of her cubby, waved me over and asked a more defined question to make
sure it was the correct stop for me.
It was and she smiled. It was a nice experience and I thank that MTA woman for her courtesy. See, even in New York City nice things happen.
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